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3 Things

  • Writer: dMbOndemand dMbOnDemand
    dMbOndemand dMbOnDemand
  • Feb 15
  • 1 min read

There are three things that I am most appreciative of right now.


Your tenacity. Grad school, taking care of me, going back to work, getting in shape, clinicals coming up, and everything else you tackle. Your tenacity is one of a kind. Whatever it is that keeps you pushing, I hope you always have an abundance of it. It is one of the engines of our life.


Your consistency. In helping take care of me, you are steady and steadfast. It is not an up and down roller coaster. You are just here, giving love through acts of selflessness. When I feel like a burden, it is always in my head. It has never been you making me feel that way. I cannot tell you what a difference that makes to my stability.


The fact that you never throw shade. It would be easy for you to throw things back in my face, especially during difficult times when I do not know what you are struggling with inside. It would be easy to make me feel bad for needing you so much, and I have never once felt that from you.


Again, I cannot explain how much that helps keep me treading water in an already choppy ocean.

 
 
 

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