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  • Writer: dMbOndemand dMbOnDemand
    dMbOndemand dMbOnDemand
  • Jan 2
  • 1 min read

When we first started talking over 11 years ago, a few things stuck out to me right away. First, you were and still are the easiest person to talk to. I could talk to you about anything and I didn’t have to sit and think out my answers. I just said whatever came out and it felt natural and like it landed. I think it goes back to it feeling like being at home when I’m with you But even before we met that feeling was there. It was like a speaking with somebody with whom I had been friends for decades. It was like living in a fog and all of a sudden the sunshine came out.


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